09 Oct How to Build Your Own ‘Village’ When Support Feels Out of Reach
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Not every parent has family or friends close by, but there are simple ways to create the support network your children—and you—need.
Why a Village Matters
Parenting can feel overwhelming when you don’t have people to lean on. While some families have grandparents, neighbours and friends close at hand, many don’t. The good news? A “village” doesn’t have to be inherited—you can create one.
Five Ways to Start Building Your Village
- Explore local spaces
Libraries, playgrounds, playgroups, and sports clubs are natural places to meet other parents. A weekly story time or kids’ activity can lead to lasting friendships. - Connect with parent groups
From school P&Cs to neighbourhood Facebook groups, parent networks are a lifeline. Look for groups that meet in person to turn online chats into real-world support. - Share the load
Community grows when support is mutual. Offer to swap school pickups, babysitting, or share meals with another family. Small acts of help can blossom into strong bonds. - Tap into local services
Charities, councils, and faith-based organisations often run family-friendly programs. Your GP, child health nurse, or local school can point you in the right direction. - Create your own traditions
Even a small ritual—like a weekly park meet-up or rotating dinners with neighbours—can create connection and a sense of belonging for your kids.
Your “village” doesn’t need to be huge to matter. Just a handful of supportive connections can ease the load, lift your spirits, and help your children feel surrounded by care.
Main image: Sydney Park, Alexandria, bike track
