08 May Is Anyone Listening? 10 Stories That Expose the Ongoing Crisis of Domestic Violence in Australia
The shocking 2020 murders of Hannah Clarke and her three children—Trey, Laianah, and Aaliyah—left us searching for answers. Tragically, domestic violence (DV) continues to claim lives and traumatise families. Despite growing awareness and public discussion, the numbers tell a grim story: violence isn’t slowing down.
Here are 10 stories we’ve covered that highlight the many faces of family and domestic violence—and why we must keep the conversation going.
1. The “Good Bloke” Excuse: Why Society Needs to Stop Making Excuses for Violent Men
Too often, perpetrators are described as “good blokes” who just snapped. This dangerous narrative minimises harm and silences victims. This piece calls on men to step up, speak out, and challenge the culture that protects abusers.
2. A Survivor’s Voice: When Academic Steven Roberts Turned Pain into Purpose
Monash academic Steven Roberts grew up surrounded by family violence and later became a target himself. His powerful personal story reminds us that violence doesn’t discriminate—and that survivors can become changemakers.
3. Invisible Victims: Why We Must Prioritise the Needs of Children
Too often, the impact of domestic violence on children is overlooked. This article advocates for a child-first approach in both policy and public discourse, highlighting the lifelong trauma children can endure.
4. New Hope in Port Stephens: Domestic Violence Survivors Find Shelter
Access to safe, affordable housing is one of the biggest hurdles for women escaping abuse. This story covers a new initiative near Port Stephens offering long-term accommodation and support.
5. The Trap of ‘Learned Helplessness’
Terms like “learned helplessness” are often used to describe survivors’ choices—but can actually obscure the social and systemic factors that keep them trapped. This article challenges misconceptions and calls for deeper understanding.
6. The Garbage Man: A Portrait of Complex Trauma
This deeply personal piece explores how childhood exposure to violence can ripple into adult life—through trauma, shame, and sometimes inherited behaviours. It’s a confronting but crucial read.
7. Making Sense of the Data: What the Numbers Really Say About DV
With more statistics being released than ever before, this explainer breaks down the data behind domestic, family, and sexual violence to reveal what’s really happening—and what needs to change.
8. When a Parent Murders the Other: Children Left in the Aftermath
When one parent kills another, the child’s world is shattered forever. This story explores the ripple effects of filicide and domestic homicide on children who are often left voiceless.
9. Collective Grief, Collective Action: Is Progress Possible?
As a society, we’re grieving—and furious—about the rise in violence against women. This reflection highlights the steps forward we have taken and the urgent work still ahead.
10. Double Disadvantage: The Violence Women with Disabilities Face
Women with disabilities—particularly intellectual disabilities—face higher rates of gendered violence. This story underscores the need for inclusive, accessible support systems that don’t leave anyone behind.
🧭 Finall a Call-to-Action:
If you or someone you know is experiencing domestic or family violence, call 1800RESPECT (1800 737 732) for confidential support.
