17 Sep Marriage and Divorce in Australia: What the Latest Statistics Mean for Families
The latest figures from the Australian Bureau of Statistics (ABS) highlight some key trends in marriage and divorce in 2023. While marriages are dipping after a post-pandemic high, divorce rates remain relatively stable. For parents, these statistics offer a glimpse into the changing dynamics of family life.
Marriage Rates on the Decline
In 2023, Australia saw 118,439 marriages, down 6.9% from a record 127,161 in 2022. This drop comes after two years of postponed nuptials due to the COVID-19 pandemic. According to ABS head of marriages data, James Eynstone-Hinkins, the effects of the pandemic are still being felt. He explains, “Many couples delayed their wedding plans, which is reflected in both the overall numbers and the rise in the median ages at marriage.”
Indeed, couples are waiting longer to get married. The median age for men was 32.9 years and 31.2 years for women, both slightly higher than before the pandemic. The busiest time for weddings was once again in spring, with November 11 being the most popular date—nearly 1,800 couples said “I do” on that day alone.
Divorces Hold Steady
While marriages are down, the number of divorces granted in 2023—48,700—showed only a slight 1.1% decrease from the previous year. The crude divorce rate has also fallen, from 2.4 per 1,000 people in 2022 to 2.3 in 2023. Interestingly, the median age at divorce has risen as well, reaching 47.1 years for men and 44.1 years for women, suggesting that divorces among younger couples are becoming less common.
Navigating Divorce When Children Are Involved
For parents navigating the challenges of separation or divorce, it’s reassuring to know that research suggests the process itself is not necessarily harmful to children. Clinical psychologist Dr. Helen Stallman, co-author of the Family Transitions Triple P program, explains that the way parents handle the transition is key. “Almost half of Australian divorces involve children under 18,” Dr. Stallman notes. “It’s normal for parents to be concerned about how these changes will affect their kids, but the important thing is how you manage the situation.”
Dr. Stallman emphasizes that access to support can make a world of difference. Thanks to government funding, Australian parents now have free access to Family Transitions Triple P, an online program designed to help parents cope with the challenges of separation and divorce. “Whether one or both parents complete the program, it provides practical tips and strategies that can be used immediately, helping parents to navigate this time with greater confidence,” she says.
Supporting Children Through Change
While divorce is a major life event, it’s how parents approach the changes that really matters for children. With the right tools, families can successfully transition through separation, ensuring that kids remain supported and emotionally secure.
